How often do you lie? Deception researchers investigate how the recipient and the medium affect telling the truth
Republican Representative George Santos allegedly lied in many ways, including to donors through a third party in order to misuse the funds raised.
- Republican Representative George Santos allegedly lied in many ways, including to donors through a third party in order to misuse the funds raised.
- Another is the medium used to convey the alleged lie: on a bureaucratic form, through intermediaries and via social media.
- Differences like these lead researchers like me to wonder what factors influence the telling of lies.
Figuring out the frequency of lies
- The classic study on lying frequency was conducted by psychologist Bella DePaulo in the mid-1990s.
- The community members averaged one lie per day, while the students averaged two lies per day.
- It could be that each person in the group tells one or two lies per day.
- Participants reported 1,646 lies in total, but half of them came from just 5.3% of the participants.
Does the medium make a difference?
- What if you don’t just consider face-to-face interactions, but introduce some distance by communicating via text, email or the phone?
- Research suggests the medium doesn’t matter much.
- For the rest of the group, the vast majority said that 10% or fewer of their texts contained lies.
- Many lies occur in the heat of the moment, so it makes sense that when there’s a delay in communication, as with email, lying would decrease.
Does the audience change things?
- In addition to the medium, does the intended receiver of a potential lie make any difference?
- In her classic work, DePaulo found that people tend to tell what she called “everyday lies” more often to strangers than family members.
- Other data also finds participants tell more lies to friends and family members than to strangers.
Investigating the truth about lies
- Further replication is needed, and cross-cultural studies using non-Western participants are scarce.
- Additionally, there are many other variables that could be examined, such as age, gender, religion and political affiliation.
From 2020-2023, Christian B. Miller received funding from the John Templeton Foundation for the Honesty Project, which advancd research on the psychology and philosophy of honesty.